Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi All,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years he has Autism and I’m a NT . We have always had ups and downs and he has always been in and out of work he has just started a new job (1 week in) and already wants to quit. I struggle with reacting in a sympathetic way. I worry about the money side of things - I don’t make enough to cover all our outgoings. So this is my first reaction. He doesn’t think I’m being supportive enough but I’m too worried about money.
Im at a loss of how to feel. I want him to be happy and have a job he loves but I also need him to make enough money to support himself. we talk about having a family one day and I just don’t see how that is possibly.
I’m not really sure what I’m asking or who will see this. Any advise would be helpful.
thanks x
Well, I would recommend you try to find him a proper job where he will be confident in what he is doing. Also, I don't want to lie to you. Living with an autistic person is not a shining part of life, but I heard many stories when couples with autistic problems were pretty successful. It depends on personality, conditions, and education. Also, I would suggest you look for some side hustle ideas available in your area. From my experience, your boyfriend can work as a web design specialist from home, web designers have a good salary, and he will work from his place, and other people don't bother him.