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Bullying

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I am anxious as my boss has scheduled an unexpected meeting with me and hasn't told me what it is about. Every time she does this it means someone from my team has made a complaint against me. I and a couple of others have been bullied by the majority of this group for over a year. Each new boss (on our third) can't get a grip on it. Anyway, as I have a ASD it is doubly difficult for me to cope with this. I am so anxious that this new boss is out of her depth, so the easy way out is to make me the problem. Anyone have any ideas how to cope with this? 

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  • I can only go by my old work place. The owner and manager were best friends. It was very peculiar as the manager would ask the owner things like 'have you drank enough today? ' or 'make sure you eat ' more like a weird mother type conversation. Their other 'joy'was picking on me. I wasent sure at first if that's what was happening. I'd ignore it. A co worker heard the manager one day and stuck up for me. The other co worker also picked up on it. We didnt know why as I was the most productI've in the office and bought in money. The manager took all of my commission. If I asked about it I was told in my contract commission is discretionary. I'd ask whys my break shorter than others yet I wotk more hours. Theyd say swings and round  bouts. 

    I'd even work free from home. I'd complete jobs the manager couldnt do and then gave to me.

    Anyway, theyd pull me into a room to belittle me. The owner and manager, even her husband one time who was basically a gorilla in Jean's. 

    Theyd call me in to say how rubbish I was at my job for things like....in your emailyou left 2 spaces here not 1. Or you signed sincerely instead of kind regards! So I got fed up and instead of crying my eyes out and going mute, I would say okay noted, can I keep this email you've highlighted in red for my records? Or 'can we record this meeting on my ohone' my meetings stopped but I dud quit. I hated them. Talking about it later my co workers think the business was a front for something so they didnt care about the business that's why it didnt matter what money I bought in or new clients theyd not bother with. 

    You need to get smart, keep records

  • in reply to mouse2

    You were too good for them. 

    They ARE closer to chimps than anything else. 

    NTs only want shite. They don’t want success or good in thier lives. 

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  • in reply to NAS65871

    I typed the above on my phone, I've just seen so many mistakes but you get the picture. The other lady they took on left a higher paid job to work there. The verbal agreement was a set wage. She questioned it as her contract said a lower wage. They said it goes up after 3 months. It never went up sadly. Awful people