I have been wanting to say sorry just as soon as I read your post, but was worried I would just make things worse. In fact I know I risk doing that now because I know I am crap at understanding what other people are thinking and so good at upsetting people. I have made so many mistakes in my life with people and I'm so sorry that now I have added you to my long list of them.
I have been wanting to say sorry just as soon as I read your post, but was worried I would just make things worse. In fact I know I risk doing that now because I know I am crap at understanding what other people are thinking and so good at upsetting people. I have made so many mistakes in my life with people and I'm so sorry that now I have added you to my long list of them.
You don't need to be sorry, It was my fault, was suffering with my foot particularly badly when I wrote this (I didn't yet know at that point I could put it up on a pillow to make it ease the pain) but I didn't mention that in the post so you wouldn't have known. I find it hard communicating clearly myself, I didn't put enough detail in the original post.
Well you were the first to reply and that also takes some courage. It gave me courage to make a further reply. Even though we are lonely aspies who want friends yet don't want them in some way, we all rub a bit off one another for good or bad, don't we?.
Personally i thought your post was a bit like when i walk around with a grumpy face and someone says "cheer up, maybe it's not so bad" and they have kind intentions but it doesnt work with me so i say RAAAAAAAAAR and get even more grumpy. See, i'm lightening the mood like you did - and i take a risk when i do it, like you did. x
