Should I stay or go?
Sorry I keep doing this in bits , I get thoughts and they leave my mind. I struggle to remember each point.
So my wife is adament that if i leave she will be a better mum, that i wont zap her and she will have more buffer for the kids.
I stay to be a better me and work out this puzzle and get it right.
And that I'm worried if I'm not here the kids will have to deal with a angry tired mum by themselves at least Im hear to share the load of the kids, give her a break.
Am I wrong Am i too much of a problem and its better for everyone I leave and parent from a distance.
I dont want to leave my home that my parents put a a huge contribution to and I've worked huge amount hours to pay for and develop into an awesome home for kiddies
But am I being selfish and I doing what I want at the expense of hurting my wife.
Hi Matthew, this is a big life decision, please contact a relationship counsellor and get some professional help. Sharing the kids won't make life easier as you will have to juggle your life around it. Please don't base such a big decision on the viewpoints of a forum of autistic people. I hear your urgency and have been through a divorce, it's tough. X
Thanks , I really appreciate your clarity :)