Still failing at talking to people

Will i ever get things right? Just offended another person as I asked what chemicals were put down as whatever it was it was way too strong and with it being a public place it could be a health issue. Also with me helping there concerned for my own safety so I'd worked around the affected area I put all this as nicely as I I possibly could and I put the kisses at the end that people seem to do. But offended the person plus they wont say what's used just said 'you do it then!' I've replied I just wanted to know and struggle socially due to having aspergers and dont always know how to write things. Just upsetting people makes me super anxious. The person didnt reply.

Another volunteering role i asked where the money had gone as the children had to miss out on an activity due to missing funds. Everyone hated me and the treasurer left! They were all doting on the treasurer and not worrying about missing funds! These things are odd to me why would people let others do as they please and not question any discrepancies?

Another time I asked if the person had taken drugs as I was suspicious and they were in charge of people. They got super nasty about me asking

I constantly fail yet try so darn hard. Especially atm as I cant meet with people and have to message to find things out. Exhausted 

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  • Sounds like perfectly normal questions - at least to me.

    I think we all worry to much about what others think now.. Things never used to like this.   I've enough problems worrying about my issues - let alone those of others.  If others want to get upset at your questions - so what.  Let them.  They have that right.  And you have the right to ask.

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  • Sounds like perfectly normal questions - at least to me.

    I think we all worry to much about what others think now.. Things never used to like this.   I've enough problems worrying about my issues - let alone those of others.  If others want to get upset at your questions - so what.  Let them.  They have that right.  And you have the right to ask.

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