Does anyone understand?
Does anyone understand?
Dave - I don't understand - you've been on here for well over a year and, even though you are clearly very intelligent, you refuse to act on any of the replies and advice that people give and you keep returning to your entrenched position.
Have you considered that that's another year of your life that you are wasting - another year of damage to your relationships, another year of wasted energy, another year of your children's life that you are wasting, another year of all your friends life that you are wasting.
You know very well that you are not going to recover any of your lost money and you're not going to overturn any judgements against you.
So what are you trying to achieve?
You have only really suffered a financial setback - it's just money - and you can live on less and still have a fulfilling life. You're a clever guy - in all the years you've wasted trying to turn back time, you could have retrained and found a way to make that money back many times over.
I've had a major medical problem - life changing - there's nothing I can do about that but gather together what resources I have, my friends, my family and try to make the best of it. I possibly could have sued the doctors for negligence that put me in this position but it would take years, cost me all my time, energy and financial resources and there would be no guarantee of success.
My life will never be the bed of roses that I planned for but you play the hand you're dealt.
Why do you still want to destroy your own life and all those around you? Do you have any respect for all the people around you? Have you considered their feelings and wishes?
You have your freedom to do literally anything you want - you can decide to move on and rebuild your life and re-engage with all the people around you - if you really want to.
Dave - I don't understand - you've been on here for well over a year and, even though you are clearly very intelligent, you refuse to act on any of the replies and advice that people give and you keep returning to your entrenched position.
Have you considered that that's another year of your life that you are wasting - another year of damage to your relationships, another year of wasted energy, another year of your children's life that you are wasting, another year of all your friends life that you are wasting.
You know very well that you are not going to recover any of your lost money and you're not going to overturn any judgements against you.
So what are you trying to achieve?
You have only really suffered a financial setback - it's just money - and you can live on less and still have a fulfilling life. You're a clever guy - in all the years you've wasted trying to turn back time, you could have retrained and found a way to make that money back many times over.
I've had a major medical problem - life changing - there's nothing I can do about that but gather together what resources I have, my friends, my family and try to make the best of it. I possibly could have sued the doctors for negligence that put me in this position but it would take years, cost me all my time, energy and financial resources and there would be no guarantee of success.
My life will never be the bed of roses that I planned for but you play the hand you're dealt.
Why do you still want to destroy your own life and all those around you? Do you have any respect for all the people around you? Have you considered their feelings and wishes?
You have your freedom to do literally anything you want - you can decide to move on and rebuild your life and re-engage with all the people around you - if you really want to.
I’ve been nearly killed by this and left disabled and humiliated. Blind in one eye most of my spine broken can barely walk. Didn’t of rg anise children’s careers well as too busy working. Now trying to set up a suicide centre on as nhs seems no good
yes wasting life entrenched no way out hopeless and helpless, which is why many take their lives
i ve spent much on psychotherapy and am a qualified hypnotherapist myself , tried another person as well........ anything left.........
