Appearing intimidating when you don't mean to be

Be quite tall and well built . Add a loud voice that gets louder when you're passionate about something( my voice just seems normal to me in terms of loudness) .


If I'm honest the voice thing perplexes me . I've had quite a few times when I've been asked to repeat things or people have misheard what I've said . Were they all hard of hearing? Was I talking too softly ? Perhaps my diction is bad ?

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  • Thanks - and sorry if I'm going off on a tangent, but In chinese astrology people born in the year of the fire monkey are apparently fast-thinking and courageous, this can take some people aback. If anyone's been intimidated by you, it might just be because you came across as more sharp than them and if they were more dull-witted they felt embarrassed or dumbfounded by it. 

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