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Panic Room!

The Riddler

For a while now I have had an issue with travelling on public transport and going out to unfamiliar places. What seems to be the issue is the unfamiliarity of where toilets are. I say that because it’s what links everything together. I noticed this again recently when I went into a Subway in an unfamiliar area. I found I was instantly scoping for the loo. This is also why I have stopped using trains, because the toilets are very often out of order and on planes thee is also a point when you can’t leave your seat for god knows how long!!

What I think is that toilets have become a safe room! If I’m out and get anxious and need to detach myself for a while. the only place to reliably do this is to lock myself in a cubicle for 5 or 10 minutes.

Does anyone else have anything similar or is this an ASD unrelated issue?

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  • i dont feel like public toilets are safe, but im a dude and the mens toilets are often disgusting and offer no privacy at all which i find to be medieval in standards. they assume we dont like privacy and are ok pissing in the open next to each other, im not ok with that and never have been, its weird and creepy and you can even tell others feel the same about it too and yet we put up with these horrible undignified open bowl toilets cramped together with no privacy. i avoid public toilets if i can, id rather pee in a bush somewhere, you get more privacy peeing in a bush in the park than you get in the mens toilets...

  • in reply to Caelus

    Never understood why blokes' loos are like that and you'd have my vote to change it.  As a mum of lad, when he was reaching the age when he was too big to come to the lady's with me, it's errr worrying to have to send him in the gents alone, where he might have been vulnerable.  I'd rather think there were little gents' rooms with separate cubicles.

  • in reply to Dawn
    Dawn said:
    Never understood why blokes loos are like that and you'd have my vote to change it.  As a mum of lad, when he was reaching the

    Teach him to head straight for the traps don't look back, shut lock, business, out and don't wash hands I take small wet wipes and hand gel ( even before covid ). This method ensures max safety and limits negative interactions.

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  • in reply to Dawn
    Dawn said:
    Never understood why blokes loos are like that and you'd have my vote to change it.  As a mum of lad, when he was reaching the

    Teach him to head straight for the traps don't look back, shut lock, business, out and don't wash hands I take small wet wipes and hand gel ( even before covid ). This method ensures max safety and limits negative interactions.

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