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Criticism

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I can't take criticism, particularly from my peers and particularly with things I feel that I should be good at. I get angry and upset, although I try and hide this  due to my desire to act 'neurotypical'.  Several people with AS, who I know, are very judgemental and pedantic, criticising freely. I am also very pedantic, but I try hard to be tactful when in public and try  not to pass criticism. Ironically, despite my AS, I am very self-aware. I have been criticised by  a person with AS, and afterwards I obsessed over it and felt very angry and upset. Proof that people with AS can end up annoying each other!. What do you think? Can you take criticism?

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  • Criticism is a negative bias function of an aspergers mind which is connected to a  "physical sensory pain function" of the brain(ACC), which is like an area shaped like a corridor which is directed connected too the fear amygdala. I see it like an internal post box evaluation system which is triggered early on by authority figures and corrective stimulas(Mis-parenting signals).  Remember aspergers is an union of moral and intellect, hence the perfect path thinking. We live in an imperfect world so the rational correct mind has tension(anxiety) based on the irregular, illogical, irrational,, normal(abnormal) maze mind of the collective dross of society.

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  • Criticism is a negative bias function of an aspergers mind which is connected to a  "physical sensory pain function" of the brain(ACC), which is like an area shaped like a corridor which is directed connected too the fear amygdala. I see it like an internal post box evaluation system which is triggered early on by authority figures and corrective stimulas(Mis-parenting signals).  Remember aspergers is an union of moral and intellect, hence the perfect path thinking. We live in an imperfect world so the rational correct mind has tension(anxiety) based on the irregular, illogical, irrational,, normal(abnormal) maze mind of the collective dross of society.

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