Newly Diagnosed and low IQ

Hi, i'm a 34 year old female recently diagnosed with Autism from Belgium. 

It wasn't big news to hear i'm on the spectrum because i kinda knew already that this was the case since longer and i have a brother who is on the spectrum as well, and probably my father too who is undiagnosed. 

I always refused to get myself tested because i was a happy and bright girl and tried to be independent like my peers but it was always with a mask on and great difficulties. Everything is a struggle, from going to bed at night on time (always slept very late) to being anxious about new situations and change, scared what other people may think of me in social situations, getting dressed on time and what to wear, getting out of the house is a big struggle, crossing the streets etc... 

And yet, i'm a very clever woman, i like philosophical topics, i like to act and perform on stage, i like music and good at it, writing and so on, i have manners and etiquette and i have a good eye for detail and good taste for furniture and clothes. I'm very good in speech and communication, and always know what to say to people in certain situations even offer help, in short, most of my friends and people i know see me as a very intelligent person and YET, i scored 65 on the IQ test they offered me during my testing which is extremely low. I always knew i had learning difficulties and that i'm slow in picking up things but that my IQ would be so low, is a slap in the face...I am desperate for answers and people in my environment are shocked by this result. The place where i took the test called me mentally weak (don't want to use the R word) They told me its due to my autism, that my autism is bringing down my intelligence (in the moment) I can relate to that cause when i did the IQ test i was often nervous and had a hard time focussing on things. So it surely pushes down my intelligence but i don't want to be on par with people who have mental weaknesses such as people with let's say Down Syndrome, although i think those people are amazing and lovely people. But i'm so confused because you would never guess i have such a low IQ on hearing me talk and meeting me. Most people are even shocked i have Autism cause i blend in well with other people. I do tend to have a unique look on life and i'm very compassionate but that graces me.

So i'm wondering what those IQ tests actually mean on people with autism and i'm thinking the worst now, and i have been crying since then. Feeling so worthless and small now. But it's probably very different from other people with mental challenges. I don't know, can someone tell me more?

Thanks so much!

Moonmaiden

Parents

  • I was once asked to join a group of people who had rather high IQ scores. It was really good as I did not have to explain so much stuff nor simplify it. Unfortunately the highest IQ type of the group got uncomfortable with me being able to relate not only with them, but also to introduce higher and more complex considerations to everybody else too. The top IQ type was really into imagining they were better than everyone else in the group, and challenged me to an IQ test showdown. It was kind of amusing really given that someone with one of the highest IQ scores in the hundreds was trying to beat me with an IQ score that in the showdown came to 60.

    Perhaps consider the following article's opening paragraph or read the short article via the link:


    IQ is a really stupid concept

    It's stacked against most of the world.

     Too many of us use the terms “IQ” and “intelligence” as if they’re interchangeable. They’re not. An IQ score isn’t a magical signifier of smarts; it merely quantifies your ability to take a particular kind of test. Wealthy, white Westerners tend to perform among the best on these exams, but that doesn’t mean they’re smarter than the rest of the world. Research increasingly indicates that the advantages that group enjoys—like better education and healthcare—set them up for success on such evaluations. And it doesn’t hurt that the most expensive education is generally geared toward improving one’s ability to fill in the proper bubbles. Access to money, school, and medicine can all change apparent acumen—but IQ ignores inherent intellect. Race In some parts of the world, kids given IQ assessments were unfamiliar even with the concept of standardized testing, let alone with the question format or subject matter. The established correlation between race and IQ doesn’t reveal an inherent genetic advantage. It shows how closely your score is tied to health, wealth, and access to education.

    https://www.popsci.com/why-iq-is-flawed/


    There is also this article stating much the same:

    If we were really smart, we’d get over our fixation on the IQ test


  • That map raises some uncomfortable issues. Whether it is right, or whether it is wrong, it suggests that scientific research is driven partly by politics.


  • That map raises some uncomfortable issues. Whether it is right, or whether it is wrong, it suggests that scientific research is driven partly by politics.

    Yes ~ sociologically very much. Bias is often overlooked or little considered. Check out for instance the '9 Types of Unconscious Bias and the Shocking Ways They effect Your Recruiting Efforts' article via this link:


    https://www.socialtalent.com/blog/diversity-and-inclusion/9-types-of-bias


Reply Children

  • It suggests either the scientists are racist, or that your ethnic background is a big determinant of your intelligence. I'm not sure which is the better answer.

    I think more perhaps that the format of an intelligence recognition system is similar in effect to a particular language, and being that there are many languages there are many types of intelligence and one is no greater a sign of mental capacity than any other ~ just better suited in particular locations where the language is used or instances when it is spoken.


  • It suggests either the scientists are racist, or that your ethnic background is a big determinant of your intelligence. I'm not sure which is the better answer.