Question time

Like i said I have done nothing wrong. 

We are not intolerant. We fed back to the agape. I have informed the mods that there have been several people confused/distressed/concerned by the multiple threads and odd postings.   This forum is for ALL people with autism no one said otherwise.

"One or 2 more people like this and the forum will lose loads of users" is justified by "I have informed the mods that there have been several people confused/distressed/concerned by the multiple threads and odd postings."

and like Leaf

"I can't add anymore to this conversation I don't think as I seem to keep saying the same thing over and over again. "

If you are reading this agape - then I worry that you get bit sad or lonely as the night wears on, especially if you struggle to sleep. You have mentioned things in your posts that have made me wonder this. I hope the fairy lights that you love so much bring you comfort. 

early on i did think it was a bot, threads where appearing at the same time.  The posts seemed like an AI. Yep I'm done as well. Thanks Leaf.

aidie said:

This forum is for ALL people with autism no one said otherwise.

well.....

aidie said:

One or 2 more people like this and the forum will lose loads of users. 

That doesn't sound very welcoming.

Let agape get a feel for the place. Chill out.

aidie said:

I was also worried someone had released a Bot on this forum.

I didn't think the postings were from a Bot but I was worried about how Agape was feeling and was she feeling worse later at night. 

I can't add anymore to this conversation I don't think as I seem to keep saying the same thing over and over again. 

Ah, OK. I've been here quite some time, and I've seen people start posting and aren't familiar with the format, or ettiquette that the site has at first.

People usually settle in well after a while. Agape may or may not be used to the site.

Hopefully they settle into the place well.

Leaf did nothing wrong her concern is real.

We are not intolerant. We fed back to the agape. I have informed the mods that there have been several people confused/distressed/concerned by the multiple threads and odd postings.   This forum is for ALL people with autism no one said otherwise.

Cup of tea anyone ?

I wasn't referring to you - I am very sorry if you though I was. I was referring to Mrs JR. 

I did not express disapproval towards Agape but I do not approve of Mrs JR's passive aggressive remarks. 

So because I've never spoke to you I can't comment? Seems a very closed attitude.

Expressing disapproval can be disguised as "concern".

I haven't been passive-aggressive either. I've stated the plain facts that this site is for ALL autistic people, and that there is nothing offensive here. Let the mods do their job.

It is only Mrs JR who is suggesting that there is something offensive, and I object profusely to anybody saying I was. 

I was concerned for Agape NOT criticising her/them. I offered a suggestion that might offer a working solution to both parties and help Agape express as they feel they need to. 

If this is a forum for ALL people with Autism then I don't expect to be subject to passive aggressive intolerances either, especially from someone I don't know or have never communicated with. 

I am being careful.  I am not intolerant. I fed back to the agape. I have informed the mods that there have been several people confused/distressed/concerned by the multiple threads and odd postings. So its up to the mods. I was also worried someone had released a Bot on this forum.

What have you done ?

This is a site for ALL autistic people.

I don't see anything offensive, if it's deemed as a problem it's up to the mods.

By telling people to be careful you run the risk of being as intolerant as you suggest others are - who are to to decide what is intolerance and just not coping. 

Careful. What will lose users, I expect, is intolerance.

i agree with Leaf. One or 2 more people like this and the forum will lose loads of users. 

I did not in any way say that Agape had done anything wrong but only that I was concerned because of an on going posting stye that suggested that the OP was perhaps struggling in the middle of the night. I feel that I would have been remiss not to show concern.

I am not in any way trying to confine anybody but only making a suggestion because there has to be an element of compromise here, some are finding the forum difficult to use and I care that Agape can express their self in a way that they need to... Just saying. 

I don't think it matters that agape wants to post in that style. The person's not said anything wrong. Surely, the one place autistic people should not have to feel confined is on here....just sayin'

Agape, I am a little worried about you, your posting style suggest that something slightly deeper might be going in. Do you maybe have a CPN that you can talk to about what is going on at this moment; if you don't you can ask your GP for a referral to your local community mental health team. Sometimes it's good to talk to someone freely and openly with out the worry of how they will think of you after, I have a CPN that I see every few weeks and it find it very helpful. 

I worry a little that your posting stye my cause some people to become annoyed, the last time you had trouble sleeping and started lots of random threads some members found it difficult and asked you not to do it and here you are doing it again; nobody wants to be unkind but some may run out of patience. 

Perhaps if you were to keep your religious thoughts to The Autistic Christian thread rather than start new ones that would help to keep the number of new threads you start down a bit. 

I say this with the best will in the world, I hope you will take it with the good intentions with which it was meant; and because I think a lot of people might not want this to become a thing. 

I think that one of the keys to understanding is asking questions so this is a good start 

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