One of the reasons I am glad I do not have any friends is that a fair number of the people I have managed to get reasonably familiar with in the past had the habit of identifying and attempting to rectify with their "Wise words" or warnings what they perceived as flaws in my character/personality/attitude or whatever.
I never know if I should express anger at their interference and what could be taken as their arrogance and lack of respect or be gracious and believe without question that they are making a sincere attempt to do me some good, either way I am saddened when such things take place because it means that another of my many shortcomings has gained attention and my inability to follow any advice-or even understand what the hell I am doing which is so wrong in the first place-is often viewed as being either carelessness/apathy/sloth/cavalier disregard,etc,etc and soon the distances become longer, the chats shorter and the previously friendly smiles become wearier.here we go again and there's no way back.
Who needs any of that crap? I choose solitude and have greater peace of mind.
One of the reasons I am glad I do not have any friends is that a fair number of the people I have managed to get reasonably familiar with in the past had the habit of identifying and attempting to rectify with their "Wise words" or warnings what they perceived as flaws in my character/personality/attitude or whatever.
I never know if I should express anger at their interference and what could be taken as their arrogance and lack of respect or be gracious and believe without question that they are making a sincere attempt to do me some good, either way I am saddened when such things take place because it means that another of my many shortcomings has gained attention and my inability to follow any advice-or even understand what the hell I am doing which is so wrong in the first place-is often viewed as being either carelessness/apathy/sloth/cavalier disregard,etc,etc and soon the distances become longer, the chats shorter and the previously friendly smiles become wearier.here we go again and there's no way back.
Who needs any of that crap? I choose solitude and have greater peace of mind.
