Dealing with school issues

Hi everyone,

Does anyone else here have a child who also has SEN? I find confronting school about issues around support so stressful and draining. Last year I just let everything get bad because I had so much on my plate but this year I was determined to ensure my child is receiving the support she needs.

It's been awful. I've had to complain about certain staff members (who treated my daughter awfully), have had multiple meetings and phone calls, and things are still terrible for my child.

It really feels like most staff members see support as an optional extra.

Anyway, I am completely exhausted and drained. Anyone else found any ways of making it easier?

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  • Primary. Policies aren't followed, professional recommendations aren't carried out... everything is like pulling teeth and each new year the fight starts again. This year we have a particularly awful teacher who refuses to listen to anything.

    I definitely agree on your last comment. The most intimidating parents always get their own way. We're trying to just keep complaining until it's less hassle for school to just do it's job.

    With hindsight, I've been far too trusting, assuming that when someone agrees to do something they will actually do it. Been lied to a lot.