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Might As Well Not Talk

Mytwenty

Hi

I am going through the diagnosis process, and have become increasingly conscious of my bad social skills, which people close to me have admitted are not great. Maybe it's pride, but what's the point in talking at all if I'm going to embarrass myself?

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  • What stage are you at in the diagnosis process? I've been on the waiting list for 10 months now - it feels like forever. 

    It sounds like you're being way too hard on yourself. Don't get me wrong, I often cringe at things I've said and I always over-analyse conversations I've had, but these things feel much worse in our heads than they do to other people. I'll go away from a conversation and spend ages thinking of all the things I should/shouldn't have said, but the other person/people involved probably never give it a second thought.

    We all deserve to talk and be listened to. The people who care about you will overlook the socially awkward quirks; try not to concern yourself with people who are too narrow-minded to understand.

  • in reply to DuckBread

    I'm six months into a fifteen month waiting list. That said, I'm seeing a psychiatrist for my MH and he says he can unofficially, informally diagnose me. I see him next in October, so hopefully I'll get a diagnosis of sorts then.

    Thank you for this - it's all encouraging, good stuff!

  • in reply to Mytwenty

    fill in your profile, so we get to know you better. enjoy your time here. We will help you through the process until you get a diagnosis. the more you say at your diagnosis the better. there is nothing wrong with being socially a bit rough. i am like that. the part that is really positive is

    Mytwenty said:
    which people close to me have admitted are not great.

    it shows they are concerned  and understand u are a good person inside. mention this quote in your diagnosis. these people are real gold. tell them when get diagnosed as they will help you even more.

  • in reply to aidie

    I'm updating my profile right now. Thanks, I'm looking forward to being a part of this site. I'll take some paper with bullet points to my assessment, and of course I will mention what they have said about my social skills. Yeah, I'm very blessed by my friends and family. I'm thinking of keeping my diagnosis on a need to know basis.

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  • in reply to aidie

    I'm updating my profile right now. Thanks, I'm looking forward to being a part of this site. I'll take some paper with bullet points to my assessment, and of course I will mention what they have said about my social skills. Yeah, I'm very blessed by my friends and family. I'm thinking of keeping my diagnosis on a need to know basis.

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