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Loneliness - could getting a pet be a solution?

DaisyDuck

Hey

I'm feeling kinda down and finding it hard to motivate myself at the moment. I'm also really lonely despite many attempts to build friendships (very busy NT friends with families etc). Wondering about getting a pet in the hope it will a) provide some company b) an excuse to talk to other dog walkers maybe c) force me to be productive in order to look after someone/thing else's needs. I've historically had cats as they are more independent, having dogs would be a bit of a lifestyle change as I'd need to ensure I don't work away too often.

Does anyone else have pets - any thoughts on this?

TIA

Daisy

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  • I have dogs, four very enthusiastic Jack Russels. They have changed my life. I no longer feel the need for the traditional relationship. Animals are non-judgemental. Plus, they contribute massively to my ability to formulate a routine. Win, win in my book.

  • in reply to Edearl

    animals are very therapeutic i have 2 small dogs  they get you up you have to feed them look after them it really helps me look after myself by looking after them there good company too so you dont get so lonely and when someone hurts you which is often for me i know they love me as i have a  good relationship with them they know there well looked after its great try the adopting thing or rescue first if you want but its not quite  the same as  having your own keeping them small means i still reap with loads of other things like making there coats and checking up the best toothpaste and food ect  

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  • in reply to Edearl

    animals are very therapeutic i have 2 small dogs  they get you up you have to feed them look after them it really helps me look after myself by looking after them there good company too so you dont get so lonely and when someone hurts you which is often for me i know they love me as i have a  good relationship with them they know there well looked after its great try the adopting thing or rescue first if you want but its not quite  the same as  having your own keeping them small means i still reap with loads of other things like making there coats and checking up the best toothpaste and food ect  

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