Loneliness - could getting a pet be a solution?

Hey

I'm feeling kinda down and finding it hard to motivate myself at the moment. I'm also really lonely despite many attempts to build friendships (very busy NT friends with families etc). Wondering about getting a pet in the hope it will a) provide some company b) an excuse to talk to other dog walkers maybe c) force me to be productive in order to look after someone/thing else's needs. I've historically had cats as they are more independent, having dogs would be a bit of a lifestyle change as I'd need to ensure I don't work away too often.

Does anyone else have pets - any thoughts on this?

TIA

Daisy

Parents
  • I have a cat - they can be very haughty sometimes.

    As for dogs - you need to find a breed that is right for you, as some can be considerably more work than others.

  • Thanks Stephen, I've been looking into labradors as they seem to have a nice temperament. Although I think I might have to shift my lifestyle before I get one rather than the other way around! work requires a lot of travel

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  • Thanks Stephen, I've been looking into labradors as they seem to have a nice temperament. Although I think I might have to shift my lifestyle before I get one rather than the other way around! work requires a lot of travel

Children
  • Labradors do have a lovely temperament, but they can be a little hyper (although some are really lazy - so it's not always the case). Clumber Spaniels have a beautiful temperament and are actually quite slow and sedate (odd traits for spaniels!). Energy is more important than breed though - getting a rescue dog might be a good idea, as the shelter will be able to tell you about the dogs' energy levels and temperament.