Published on 12, July, 2020
How do other people on the spectrum deal with this?
I have always struggled with it because I know when I am so honest people always point this out.
Suddenly I have somebody I really cared about, note past tense cared, suggest I am dishonest, I have nearly lost my career due to my honesty! How do others cope with incidence of being accused of dishonesty?
not very well - get very angry
Yep understandable, espescially when you have given them every reason to trust you and you, trusted them, makes me feel like a complete fool.
what else can you do ? You can only try your best. That doesn't make you a fool. Yes you are hurting which is sad but dont beat yourself up too much.
Apologies for the random, much later message - but searching for catastrophising brought me to this message, and the info is very helpful.
sorry sorry sorry
I was liking you until you mentioned blondie.... Now? Talk about stick the boot in....
i am starting to like u :)
yep sometimes do this, hands up.... but not in this instance....