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Upset At The Checkout

LucyLandRover

Hello,

I had a upsetting incident at the local supermarket last week and would like some advice. I was in the que and the store was busy so I had a lot to contend with when a lady brushed past with her trolley and patted me on the shoulder. I can not stand being  touched by strangers and this made me shudder. I was unaware I was in her way and suggested that excuse me was a polite way of moving me to which her reply was quite abusive and I was accussed of being rude and nasty, both of which are simply not me. I wonder what else I could have done? I would prefer to get along with people but find it hard when confronted with such situations and not knowing how to react.  I have had similar expereinces which involve strangers patting me. Does anyone else experience this?

Thank you.

Nick

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  • this happens all the time in supermarkets,  just forget about it,  dont take any offence. Her touching u was a human way of keeping balance as she squeezed past . Yes 'excuse me' would have helped,  but it doesnt always work. Think of dumping into each other in supermarkets as a trival issue and as part of the norm.  The best reaction is to just say 'Sorry' or not speak. She shouldnt have been abusive again its best to not react. If it gets out of control where they really become abusive complaint to management because they are covered in cameras way more than you realise.  

  • in reply to aidie

    Dear Aidie,

    thank you so much for your kind words and advice. It has made me feel so much better. I will avoid the supermarket on that day and go another day when better people are around. Having Dyspraxia does not help so I do have problems with moving around but even so being polite goes a long way. Thank you! 

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  • in reply to aidie

    Dear Aidie,

    thank you so much for your kind words and advice. It has made me feel so much better. I will avoid the supermarket on that day and go another day when better people are around. Having Dyspraxia does not help so I do have problems with moving around but even so being polite goes a long way. Thank you! 

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