On the issue of Deceit and Trust?

Sadly it has come to pass a social activity I am involved with. to have invested a great deal of time and energy has become threatened due to my disagreement with the leader of the activity group over one thing I have a great deal of difficulty dealing with, that thing being deceit.

Now it appears to myself no other or at least none others that are saying have a problem with that deceit, to wonder am I wrong in expecting better of one that purports to lead ?

For in it is the issue of trust where I find I just can't trust someone of whom has deceived me, not once, but twice.

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  • Greetings, All. This business of Lying is a "Thing" for Myself also. Duplicity and Contradiction are very bad for Myself also. "Being Kind by telling a Lie" is a thing for Myself also... 

    Enough of that. I post a perhaps more interesting Tenet about Lying. In My own life, I WILL lie in Self-defence or in a Life-threatening situation, that is for certain! That is the only kind of Lie which I think is good (...) to do since it is quite a necessary thing.

    To close this Post, I say another thing. At school, I was taught that "Lying is okay sometimes if it is a kind lie." What I Myself learnt from others saying this was in fact that they were *really* saying the following:

    "It is okay to tell Lies -- as long as You do not tell Lies to ME."  

     !

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  • Greetings, All. This business of Lying is a "Thing" for Myself also. Duplicity and Contradiction are very bad for Myself also. "Being Kind by telling a Lie" is a thing for Myself also... 

    Enough of that. I post a perhaps more interesting Tenet about Lying. In My own life, I WILL lie in Self-defence or in a Life-threatening situation, that is for certain! That is the only kind of Lie which I think is good (...) to do since it is quite a necessary thing.

    To close this Post, I say another thing. At school, I was taught that "Lying is okay sometimes if it is a kind lie." What I Myself learnt from others saying this was in fact that they were *really* saying the following:

    "It is okay to tell Lies -- as long as You do not tell Lies to ME."  

     !

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