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How To Deal with Malicious ("CUTE") Children...

Disambiguating Cynosure

How To Deal with Malicious ("CUTE") Children...

...Greetings, All. I am starting this Thread early (in Winter), before the Season for it (Summer) arrives. I have asked this question indirectly before, yet gained nothing in the way of practical help/advice. Thus I try it again now, to see if anyone has a truly useful answer...?
One situation is this: Where I (am forced to) Live, there is only one way in and one way out (without destroying a fence). Last year, 'the neighbours' decided that a common/public area was their private & safe PLAYPEN for their children to play in, paddle-in-a-pool, litter, leave toys and traps, etc. etc...
To the Adults, their own 'children'... can do no wrong, ever, and ARE just OH-so-CUTE. Children can do no wrong, ever, and this is view now protected by LAW. Even if they swear, smash windows, vandalise, litter, or decide that long-term harassment or spilling your blood is FUN... they are just CUTE children. They can upset Adults, but Adults cannot upset them, they are just being harmless and CUTE Children.
My question here, in the Main, is: How do I get past them when they decide to SWARM at me?
(Pushing past is seen as 'assault'. Reasoning with them is just seen as "Funny, weirdo - let's victimise and throw stones at them!". Asking their Owners/'caregivers'... to deal with them is seen as: "Oh they are just CUTE children, they meant no harm!" -- bearing in mind the harassment and vandalism part I just said.)
...Honest question, I appreciate some honest answers, Thanks.
(P.S. - "Autism" is too long a word for such 'children', so do not bother posting mentioning that. Some Adults recall the word "Autism", but it is swiftly drowned out by the word/idea of "CUTE".)

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  • Greetings, anyone. Apologies (?), but I am slightly reviving this Thread again, to try to gain responses to the stated problem which would actually WORK.

    Also, I suspect, that this is yet another one of those things which only happens to Myself, and no-one else really believes or understands it. Often when a Thread is begun, others Post similar Tales... But not so specifically, in this one...? (A MOB of Children dancing to block an Adult who does not oppose them is Far Too CUTE.)

    ... Even if I reported to the Council, the Children themselves have NO concept of this and so carry on mobbing Me. Children are not subject to the LAW, and all of them as a Family, damned well know that. "Kids will be kids!" is what is said, and that is that.
    ... If I speak to the Children themselves, I may as well be a Puppy which they are Gleefully Kicking...: "Ooooh! Ha ha, what a funny noise she made! Let's do something else now or next time, to see what other funny noises she makes!"... is what CUTE Children are often thinking when they chase Me.

    However--- Yes, Indeed... There ARE very many respectful and wonderful Children in the World, make no mistake, I Myself do know that as well. It is just that none of those with respect seem allowed to stay for long where I (am currently forced to) Live. Thus I ask the questions which I asked here.

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    Darn it... More from Myself. I should add that, because they are all so CUTE, whatever they say is belived. I can walk through these things-- sorry, through these "children", and if they decide to run home and say "That weirdo ran me over and hurt me!" then I get accused of whatever.

    (I think I am complaining a lot, here now, but this kind of lying often actually happens. Once I had both hands upon my IPod and tried to avoid them in walking past. Then later that same day my own Family and all of them accused Me of doing the very heinous crime of 'putting a finger up' at the CUTE Children. It was a very bad thing to do to CUTE children, and everone seemed united in telling me off... but I played my Autism Card (!), and that seemed to work - just for that Lie about Me. (I did genuinely 'show them the finger' once after that, just to see if they complained again and that time it would have been them telling the truth --- but they did not!)  All that considered, But I am not looking forward to Spring and Summer this Year... CUTE children can do so much more lying...)

    ...I think that I should sign off now, if I really am the only one that this happens to. (CUTE versus Not Cute, that is.) Also I am beginning to waffle. I would like to say so much more, but, well, I am signing off now. 

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  • in reply to Disambiguating Cynosure

    Darn it... More from Myself. I should add that, because they are all so CUTE, whatever they say is belived. I can walk through these things-- sorry, through these "children", and if they decide to run home and say "That weirdo ran me over and hurt me!" then I get accused of whatever.

    (I think I am complaining a lot, here now, but this kind of lying often actually happens. Once I had both hands upon my IPod and tried to avoid them in walking past. Then later that same day my own Family and all of them accused Me of doing the very heinous crime of 'putting a finger up' at the CUTE Children. It was a very bad thing to do to CUTE children, and everone seemed united in telling me off... but I played my Autism Card (!), and that seemed to work - just for that Lie about Me. (I did genuinely 'show them the finger' once after that, just to see if they complained again and that time it would have been them telling the truth --- but they did not!)  All that considered, But I am not looking forward to Spring and Summer this Year... CUTE children can do so much more lying...)

    ...I think that I should sign off now, if I really am the only one that this happens to. (CUTE versus Not Cute, that is.) Also I am beginning to waffle. I would like to say so much more, but, well, I am signing off now. 

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