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problems with asserting myself

solitarymonkey

Whenever I am in a situation where I need to assert my point across on a serious topic, for example, my manager claiming I'm not performing high enough when in actual fact, I'm overloaded with what to do, I begin to go really light headed, dizzy and my vision darkens, as if I'm about ti black out. does anyone else on here get that? and if so, can anything be done about it? I'm getting sick of not being able to stick up for myself every time the manager tries to take her frustration out on me :(

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  • do you have someone you can talk with about your work situation and what you need ?

    must be frustrating having to deal with a manager who from the sounds of it has the typical 'i have a bit of power and feel the need to use it' going on

    she may not be the best to talk to, but if shes all you have, then you need to do it, but dont agress her, dont accuse her, just talk to her ask for her help say you feel a bit overloaded and are finding it difficult and that might be why she feels you arent performing very well, ask her what she thinks, what she would liek to see you do and how she can help you achieve this

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  • do you have someone you can talk with about your work situation and what you need ?

    must be frustrating having to deal with a manager who from the sounds of it has the typical 'i have a bit of power and feel the need to use it' going on

    she may not be the best to talk to, but if shes all you have, then you need to do it, but dont agress her, dont accuse her, just talk to her ask for her help say you feel a bit overloaded and are finding it difficult and that might be why she feels you arent performing very well, ask her what she thinks, what she would liek to see you do and how she can help you achieve this

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