Hating parties and social functions

Does anyone here really hate parties? Especially ones you don't want to go to?

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  • It is a really long time ago since I last went to a party - probably over thirty years.

    I simply refuse all invitations now.

    They get me so worked-up I wouldn't know what to say and what to do.  When I have been to parties I just sit in a corner saying nothing and doing nothing.  I don't drink alcohol and I don't eat what anyone else is eating.  I would just have an orange juice and a packet of crisps.  I always had remarks such as 'you're being really quiet' which I was.  It is really outside my comfort zone altogether.

    And this applies to other social occasions and being 'introduced' to someone for example at work.  I just completely freeze up, not knowing what to say.

    And knowing how some people misbehave and over-indulge at parties, I'm glad I don't like them.  Most people I know have now got the message that I will refuse any invitation.

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  • It is a really long time ago since I last went to a party - probably over thirty years.

    I simply refuse all invitations now.

    They get me so worked-up I wouldn't know what to say and what to do.  When I have been to parties I just sit in a corner saying nothing and doing nothing.  I don't drink alcohol and I don't eat what anyone else is eating.  I would just have an orange juice and a packet of crisps.  I always had remarks such as 'you're being really quiet' which I was.  It is really outside my comfort zone altogether.

    And this applies to other social occasions and being 'introduced' to someone for example at work.  I just completely freeze up, not knowing what to say.

    And knowing how some people misbehave and over-indulge at parties, I'm glad I don't like them.  Most people I know have now got the message that I will refuse any invitation.

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