helping teenagers to develop everyday skills

Hi

My son is 15 and was diagnosed with Aspergers at 9. Secondary school has proved difficult for him. He suffered severe depression and was suicidal last year.After input from the Psychiatrist and a year out at a small private school my son has decided that he wants to try mainstream secondary again as he wants to go to uni and knows that he needs to get used to bigger,noisier environments. I have been taking him on bus journeys and train journeys in an attempt to help him get used to public places. He is trying so hard but it stresses him out so much. The mum side of me just wants to say " sod it! I am not going to put my "baby" through this !" But the more sensible side tells me I should be helping him to cope with it all. Am I doing too much too soon? Should I just leave it for now? Any advice gratefully received.

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  • Hi

    Thanks for your reply.It is good to know that others think I am doing the right thing.Angus has a very clear goal about what he wants to do.He is really wanting to go to uni-but is worried about how he will cope.I will keep practising some life skills with him but I will take it at his pace. I am hoping that as he matures even more so will his peers and things will get a wee bit easier for him. I just want to go in to school with him like a chaperone and tell anyone who is unkind to him to " leave my boy alone!!" but that would be so uncool!!!!

    Thanks again for your advice Spektral

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  • Hi

    Thanks for your reply.It is good to know that others think I am doing the right thing.Angus has a very clear goal about what he wants to do.He is really wanting to go to uni-but is worried about how he will cope.I will keep practising some life skills with him but I will take it at his pace. I am hoping that as he matures even more so will his peers and things will get a wee bit easier for him. I just want to go in to school with him like a chaperone and tell anyone who is unkind to him to " leave my boy alone!!" but that would be so uncool!!!!

    Thanks again for your advice Spektral

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