I have recently been told by my employer that I sometimes respond sharply to my colleague, this is normally when I'm trying to do other tasks. I dont mean to be rude is this my Aspergers or am I rude I am trying to alter my behaviour but find it difficult.
I make mistakes like that too. For me it's the other way round; sometimes I may ask for help or I'm answering a question, then the other person interrupts me (also speaking sharply or angrily) when I'm half way through explaining! This is very frustrating for me and I don't understand how the other person gets away with it!
Especially when they interrupt, then try to finish my sentence for me - but with something utterly different to what I was going to say! Then I get even more flummoxed, so that even I can't work out what it was that I was going to say!