Published on 12, July, 2020
I can't stand stereotypes and do not wish to be defined by my condition. I would rather people saw me as an individual with strengths and weaknesses, some of which can be explained by me having Asperger's syndrome, rather than defining me by a label. This is why I can't stand the word 'aspie'. While having Aspergers is an important part of my identity, it is no more important than me being female, no more important than my sexuality or my age. I would hate it if someone did not see past me being a woman or past my age, why is having aspergers any different? The disability movement campaigned for disability to be seen not as an individual affliction or difference, to move beyond individualising disability and to see it as a societal problem: people with disabilities should campaign collectively to change society, making it imperative to see the person before the disability. I am a person with asperger's syndrome, not an aspie. I share traits that other people with AS may have, but I don't share all the traits, just enough to have aspergers. We are all different, to say I am an aspie suggests conformity with other 'aspies' and obliterates the part of me that defies easy categorization.
Hope said:Our society nowadays is semi-totalitarian in its expectations, the emphasis being on total conformity. Of course society has always expected people to conform to the dominant world-view, but nowadays there is hardly any space for people to step back from society because society is everywhere and in everything, including the private home.
Our society nowadays is semi-totalitarian in its expectations, the emphasis being on total conformity. Of course society has always expected people to conform to the dominant world-view, but nowadays there is hardly any space for people to step back from society because society is everywhere and in everything, including the private home.
Firstly I'm too tired at the moment to read this thread cohesively. Hope your statement here is so very true. My interpretation is: Conform, however you must regulate yourself as it's cheaper and the ILLUSION of freedom remains.