trust

I find that I generally don't trust people. Is that something that is common with Aspergers? In social situations I think I take cues from my partner to see if people are OK or not. Obviously I still might not like them though......

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  • I think that is quite a healthy approach.  Jon, you must trust your partner and best to suss someone out first before fully trusting them in time.

    Scorpion, I do not have a diagnosis, but I would be just like you about the decorating.  It drives my husband mad!  Lol!  Be proud of your high standards, they cannot help being inferior, ha, ha. Just joking.

    I have to discipline myself not to say anything actually as I know he has worked so hard on it.  I have to sort of do some self-coaching, saying to myself, it is not that important, it is more important we do not argue and fall out over a bit of wallpaper or a skirting board of whatever... I keep noticing it but learn to live with it.  I know it is maybe not as easy as that for everyone though.

    Nice to know it is not just me that is like that though Smile

     

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  • I think that is quite a healthy approach.  Jon, you must trust your partner and best to suss someone out first before fully trusting them in time.

    Scorpion, I do not have a diagnosis, but I would be just like you about the decorating.  It drives my husband mad!  Lol!  Be proud of your high standards, they cannot help being inferior, ha, ha. Just joking.

    I have to discipline myself not to say anything actually as I know he has worked so hard on it.  I have to sort of do some self-coaching, saying to myself, it is not that important, it is more important we do not argue and fall out over a bit of wallpaper or a skirting board of whatever... I keep noticing it but learn to live with it.  I know it is maybe not as easy as that for everyone though.

    Nice to know it is not just me that is like that though Smile

     

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