Female autism and organisation/exec functioning


I'm looking for some advice.

I have a nine year old daughter diagnosed with autism/PDA and some autism in my family, as well as having a fairly strong ADHD-PI profile myself.

My wife and daughter are different in lots of ways, and I've never much considered my wife may be autistic, but she has a lot of of traits of a quieter profile, but some discrepancies too.

I filled in the AQ questionnaire trying to get it from her perspective recently, and she scored much higher than  I expected, which has caused me to think on.

Tricky topic to raise at the moment as she is currently quite vulnerable, but I have a specific question:

Are there any autistic forum members for whom executive functions are not an issue? My wife's working memory and attention to cleanliness and hygiene are real strengths.

Any responses greatly appreciated.