I thought I'd introduce myself. I live in the Midlands and my son and younger brother both have been diagnosed with Aspergers for several years. My older brother also displays traits but presents differently to the other two and also has epilepsy and learning difficulties. I've been his unofficial carer for nearly 10 years which has put me under a lot of stress and I have also been displaying too many traits to ignore.
I have been researching aspie traits in females and reading one list in particular was like looking in a mirror! Some of the items that applied to me were:
Strong willed/determined yet also introverted, conscientious worker, tries hard to please others, uses a different persona in public to cope with social anxiety, compulsive traits, copies and mimics in order to fit in and many others!
I have already spoken with our GP about the possibility of getting my brother diagnosed but we hit a brick wall when he said it wasn't possible to get an adult diagnosis in our district. I was wondering if anyone had any other suggestions? If there is another route we could take I would be interested in pursuing a diagnosis myself.
If you go onto the main part of the NAS website there's a page listing services available in each local area (sorry, I'm not great at doing links) and lots of information about diagnostic services. I don't think it's at all unusual for people to be referred out of their own area for assessment and I'm pretty sure that your GP (whether he's aware of it or not) has a responsibility to do this! If you edit your thread title to something like 'Midlands Newbie' you might attract better help here than I can give you (I'm in Scotland).
Great, thank you. I'm usually pretty good with IT but I'm just finding my feet on here :) ps what part of Scotland are you from? My grandad was a Glasgow lad
Ah! Glasgow : ) the best part of Scotland, obviously! It's where I'm originally from but I've lived pretty much all over Scotland since then. Did he call you "The wean"?
Yes he did! I was only 4 when he died but I remember visiting him in hospital, he had Parkinsons and I found it difficult to understand him when it affected his voice. My older brother and me went straight for the tv and our little brother hid behind our mum's skirt! He was terrified of all the old people on the ward :)
I'm female, 45, and just had my assessment in January (High-functioning Autism / Asperger's). There are no diagnostic services in my area either but I was referred to / assessed by someone from the Glasgow team (despite the fact that I'm actually closer to Aberdeen than Glasgow). Could you see a different GP? Or contact a team in the Midlands directly, there's bound to be something on the NAS website.
Female autism traits are slowly becoming more recognised and, like you, I can identify with just about all of them! Interestingly, a lot of previously misdiagnosed men identify with the female traits too as they're not sex-specific but more to do with a style of thinking and coping than with actually being male or female biologically.