Don’t Put Words In People’s Mouths

Twice now I have had this happen on here and I don’t know if it’s neurotypical, allistic or Autistic people on here doing it but it really bugs the cr*p out of me when people say I am saying something that I’m not saying and I left the last time this happened because I deal with that cr*p all the time from neurotypicals (sorry for generalizing) and I would expect my fellow Autistics to know that if something isn’t said that our minds don’t work with manipulation, hidden agendas or are implying things or however it is that neurotypical people (again sorry for generalizing here) do as that’s their way of thinking but it’s not how my mind has ever worked and I get freaking tired of neurotypical thinking being imposed on me whenever I say anything because a lot of neurotypical thinking is to be manipulative or have some hidden agenda or implying things and to take it as it’s wrong in some way, so when people start putting words in my mouth it really irks me as I’ve been abused several times by neurotypicals because of them putting words in my mouth and not realizing that I’m not neurotypical so my mind doesn’t work with manipulation or hidden agendas or implying anything but a lot of neurotypicals', at least in my experience, minds do and so they accuse me of things that I am not doing at all like being manipulative or having hidden agendas or being some *sshole or being insensitive, taking jokes the wrong way, so on and so forth.

In other words, if I am not saying it, then don’t put something there that isn’t there by put words in my mouth. Don’t need or want that unnecessary drama or stress because someone decided to put words in my mouth. 

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  • I remember the first disagreement well.

    I think you would benefit from taking some responsibility and not blaming others for everything.

    This is a general comment, not just to do with interaction on this forum, having read all your threads.

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  • I remember the first disagreement well.

    I think you would benefit from taking some responsibility and not blaming others for everything.

    This is a general comment, not just to do with interaction on this forum, having read all your threads.

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