I am having issue about being a girl

Ok so I am 23 (waiting for a diagnosis) and I was born female, but something I’ve noticed is that throughout my life I’ve always hated my chest. I wouldn’t say my breasts are big or anything but I really have always struggled with having them there in general. I don’t like how they are there for “no reason”. Obviously I’d love to have children one day, but why do I have them now? Why can’t they just go away and come back when I am one day in the position to become pregnant? Why do they move when I move? They are they different from each other? Why do they stick out? Why do I always feel the need to contain them in tight bras? Has anyone else here struggled with this? I think I’d have the same issue if I was born a boy. I’ve heard penis’ jiggle around and move somewhat independently from bodies kind of like breasts do on girls. I identify as a girl and don’t believe to be trans or non binary or gender fluid as far as I am aware.

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  • I guess it would take to much energy for the body to grow them as part of pregnancy.

    Mine were different by a whole cup size and I've always been in danger of taking an eye out with them when running.

    The best thing I can suggest is that you find somewhere where you can have a bra fitted, not all bras are equal when it comes to shape either of you or it, you also need the right size to support you properly. 

    I doubt many women are happy with thier breasts, lets face it either they get in the way or sit there like a couple of fried eggs stuck to your chest, neither use or ornament.

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  • I guess it would take to much energy for the body to grow them as part of pregnancy.

    Mine were different by a whole cup size and I've always been in danger of taking an eye out with them when running.

    The best thing I can suggest is that you find somewhere where you can have a bra fitted, not all bras are equal when it comes to shape either of you or it, you also need the right size to support you properly. 

    I doubt many women are happy with thier breasts, lets face it either they get in the way or sit there like a couple of fried eggs stuck to your chest, neither use or ornament.

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