Anxiety?

Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right place to post ... apologies if I'm doing it all wrong :-(

I'm so so worried about my son (11) ... he was diagnosed with Aspergers (probably when he was about 6) and discharged by CAMHS about 18 months ago who felt he had no mental health issues although I didn't agree with their assessment.  He is reluctant to go out anywhere in case he meets anyone he knows and always wears a disguise (usually a hood up to hide his hair and sunglasses) ... he does like being out, just worries about it ... the only place where he feels totally at peace is by the water, clambering about in rocks, crawling in the sand and, of course paddling fully clothed :-). 

Anyway, over the past few months he's developed an obsession with confessing and apologising for things ... even things that happened months/years ago.  He will talk to me about it, check I'm not cross, check again then go through it all again, then come back to me to tell me he told his dad (or the other way round).  He struggles getting to sleep because of it and has now decided he can't sleep alone (only five months ago we remodelled the upstairs of our house to make three bedrooms into four so that he and his brothers could each have their own space).  He has a worry monster which worked for a while but he's now scared of it so we've had to put it away. 

Any advice or words of wisdom really appreciated ... it's so awful seeing him so worried.

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  • Thanks again.  I mentioned the idea of drawing/writing but he's not keen on that at all so I've left it for now and will give him time to think over the idea.  He's had a busy day and we visited friends for tea ... four adults and seven children so noisy ... he had his phone and reassurance he'd be able to sit in my car to play if it got too much but he found the garden hose and had great fun soaking himself and everyone else! Seeing him happy makes me happy.

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  • Thanks again.  I mentioned the idea of drawing/writing but he's not keen on that at all so I've left it for now and will give him time to think over the idea.  He's had a busy day and we visited friends for tea ... four adults and seven children so noisy ... he had his phone and reassurance he'd be able to sit in my car to play if it got too much but he found the garden hose and had great fun soaking himself and everyone else! Seeing him happy makes me happy.

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