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Aggressive 6yr old, issues at school 'playtimes'

ellasmum

Hello,

Our daughter is 6yrs old and we are currently awaiting assessment through our local CAMH's team. Our GP, family support worker (and us) feel she displays alot of AS/ADHD symptoms. school have had ongoing issues with her behaviour. In Yr R the issues were less serious, calling out in class, not being able to sit still, social and friendship issues. She hit Yr 1 and the problems REALLY increased. She struggles desperately with friendships and anything which changes her normal routine. She also has massive anxiety issues too.  

Over the last few weeks problems are 'peaking' and I have now had 2 letters from the head teacher about her behaviour. The most recent due to her physically assaulting boys at school....When she gets cross she cannot control herself and hits out. The most likely time for these occurences are in the playground, he behaviour during playtimes is impulsive and irratic! I know she cant be constantly monitored but I am concerned these issues are just going to get worse till we finally get a diagnosis and some help!

Her Teacher said that she feels she struggles with the 'lack of structure' during the playtime, but offered no suggestion as to how this can be helped!? she had had a supply teacher unexpectedly the day before which I feel possibly didnt help as its always unsettles her!

Any suggestions as to help with aggression and the playtime issues!? is this type of physical aggression common in Autism?

Michala x

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  • Hi there.

    I think I've just started a new thread similar to yours, as my son is also aggressive at school when he's upset or gets angry. It's a real worry, because underneath he's a lovely, loving boy who is quite sensitive in his own way. But when he's been wound up he gets to the point where he can't take any more.

    I think play time is hard as it is unstructured. My son has the option of not going out with the others and reading a book in the head's office, which he quite often does and they are happy with this. This would be harder with a younger child I guess - or another quiet alternative would have to be an attractive option.

    What I am struggling with is how he can learn better self control - so that he can recognise the signs of him getting angry and ask for help, or do something instead of lashing out. So I don't have any answers, I'm afraid.

    All the best!

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  • Hi there.

    I think I've just started a new thread similar to yours, as my son is also aggressive at school when he's upset or gets angry. It's a real worry, because underneath he's a lovely, loving boy who is quite sensitive in his own way. But when he's been wound up he gets to the point where he can't take any more.

    I think play time is hard as it is unstructured. My son has the option of not going out with the others and reading a book in the head's office, which he quite often does and they are happy with this. This would be harder with a younger child I guess - or another quiet alternative would have to be an attractive option.

    What I am struggling with is how he can learn better self control - so that he can recognise the signs of him getting angry and ask for help, or do something instead of lashing out. So I don't have any answers, I'm afraid.

    All the best!

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