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thank you all for your kind words. We havent had the best start in life i must admit, my eldest son is under investigation for ADHD and ASPURGES syndrom hes the 4 year old. My youngest had alot of (what the professionals call) febrile convultions... 9 fits in 9 months. we recently found out he has 1 single left kidney. I just never seem to get any good luck with life. My husband recently left due to us not getting on and has moved  about 40 miles away. i have no transport and no real support other than a few close friends. I didnt really have to fight to get my youngest assesed i think they could see the "traits" from quite early on. my eldest son is a handfuk and i just thought it was the norm. i only found out yesterday. im sorry to of gone on it just dont really know where to turn. this atm is prob the best thing iv got to talking to ppl who are having the same experiance as me. 

thank you all for your kind words. We havent had the best start in life i must admit, my eldest son is under investigation for ADHD and ASPURGES syndrom hes the 4 year old. My youngest had alot of (what the professionals call) febrile convultions... 9 fits in 9 months. we recently found out he has 1 single left kidney. I just never seem to get any good luck with life. My husband recently left due to us not getting on and has moved  about 40 miles away. i have no transport and no real support other than a few close friends. I didnt really have to fight to get my youngest assesed i think they could see the "traits" from quite early on. my eldest son is a handfuk and i just thought it was the norm. i only found out yesterday. im sorry to of gone on it just dont really know where to turn. this atm is prob the best thing iv got to talking to ppl who are having the same experiance as me.