Help with explaining to 5yo and younger siblings

My 5yo son is currently being assessed for autism and i'm not sure what to tell him. He has quite a few appointments coming up and I haven't told him why we are going but he has never asked either. Should I just leave it at that or should I talk to him about it? If I should then how do I talk to him about it.

He also has twin 3yo sisters who are asking about why he is going to the doctors. I've told them he is going for a check up but they won't accept that answer. I don't want to say anything to them about autism without talking to my son first.

Also i've been working with someone who comes out to the house. He has put a lot of strategies into place to help my son. My twins are feeling a bit left out I think and have started copying my sons difficult behaviour. I try to spend plenty of time doing things just with the girls but they want full on attention every minute and can't accept that I need time with my son as well to help him. Any strategies to help there?

  • Former Member
    Former Member

    They are too young to need to be told anything specific about autism. What you can do is explain that sometimes people need help and that it is normal to ask for help when you need it and it is normal for help to be given when it is asked for. This will encourage them to be open and accepting of help.