Concerned about 7 yo son, what do I do?

Hello. This is my first time here. I wonder if someone has some experience that might be able to help me. I am increasingly concerned about our son and feel that he may have an AS disorder, I suppose I am talking about Asperger's. I don't really know whom to turn to for help. Should I go to the GP? Should I take my son? Perhaps the answers are obvious to you but I'd be grateful for any help, as I am not sure where to start. 

He has always been very good at reading, maths, etc., but his handwriting is still barely legible and his fine motor skills are not that good. He will never answer a question about an emotional matter. He can't get the hang of not interrupting - he simply doesn't seem to register that anyone else is talking. He likes to give a long monologue on his favourite subjects and doesn't really care whether anyone is listening or not. And he flaps his hands a lot when he is excited. He doesn't have any close friends. 

I am thinking that we need some help, particularly as I am becoming really impatient with him recently. I find him very hard to deal with sometimes. I could do with some help and support. 

Thanks for listening. 

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi and welcome,

    A lot of your description does fit with Autism/Aspergers. Particularly the bits about interrupting and not getting the hang of turn taking and listening to others. There is enough in what you say to make this worth pursuing in my opinion.

    His teachers ought to have an opinion as he is likely to stand out from others in his class. If he has a severe problem and is having problems, such as with his mental health or if he becomes very difficult to manage, then the GP should be consulted. MH problems sometimes follow from AS issues as the inability to  handle social interaction can lead to bullying, isolation and problems that can follow from that. If he is handled well then there should be no need for things to get out of hand but a lot of kids end up with problems because noone recognised the problem and dealt with it sympathetically.

    There is a course that might help you deal with him http://www.autism.org.uk/earlybirdplus - I'm not sure if you need a formal diagnosis for this.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi and welcome,

    A lot of your description does fit with Autism/Aspergers. Particularly the bits about interrupting and not getting the hang of turn taking and listening to others. There is enough in what you say to make this worth pursuing in my opinion.

    His teachers ought to have an opinion as he is likely to stand out from others in his class. If he has a severe problem and is having problems, such as with his mental health or if he becomes very difficult to manage, then the GP should be consulted. MH problems sometimes follow from AS issues as the inability to  handle social interaction can lead to bullying, isolation and problems that can follow from that. If he is handled well then there should be no need for things to get out of hand but a lot of kids end up with problems because noone recognised the problem and dealt with it sympathetically.

    There is a course that might help you deal with him http://www.autism.org.uk/earlybirdplus - I'm not sure if you need a formal diagnosis for this.

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