Good Day everyone.
I am a respite support worker currently helping a 22 year old male on the ASD spectrum. He is largely non-verbal. I work with him as support when he attends his regular day program, 5 days a week.
He has an acute interest in colouring and folding sales flyers with crayons for hours at a time, and has little interest in anything else. He requires constant supervision due to his relationship with this particular interest. I'm posting to get some advice, as his maladaptive behaviours seem to be linked to his "papers", and they are escalating as of late, to the point of being unmanageable.
My greatest issue with him is his "ripping" up and disposing of papers, which we only have a finite supply of.
To preface, I am aware that he at times will rip up his papers as a way to show anger, however lately, he seems to be in "destructive mode" as a way to attempt to control my getting him new papers to colour (as he often has a smirk or smile on his face during these instances). Typically, our relationship is mutual - if he wants new papers to colour, I will trade with him old papers for new. Every now and then if I don't have something he fancies, I will get him other papers to provide him some extra options.
Then I refuse to trade papers with him, or I notice he's doing it to get me out of the room and "waiting" on him multiple times in a short period, I ask him to wait a few minutes, and the next thing I know, he's up and ripping his papers, throwing them in the trash. Staff at his day program and myself keep telling him that if he rips up his papers, he does not get new ones for one hour. We attempt to be as constient with his rule as we can.
This, however, does not seem to be stopping the behaviour, and when he has to wait more than 15 minutes, he becomes very agitated and starts to attempt to escape the room to look around the building for more papers. At times he must be physically followed and pushed out of unwanted spaces. At times, paper-based catalogues, etc have been destroyed in the scuffle. These behaviours increase until he becomes so unmanagable that someone has to get him new papers, or I make an executive decision not to let him have any for the rest of the day - a which for the rest of the day, he is a constant flight risk.
The curious part is that this behaviour only seems to be happening when I am around for the day at his program. On off days when others are caring for him, he sits with only two papers for the entire day, and/or his behaviours deminish.
Obviously, this behaviour is linked to something I am doing incorrectly, or is in some way linked to my presence. I am at a loss as to what may remedy the situation. This is my first ASD client.
If any of you have any ideas, advice, or suggestions, I'd be all ears to hear them.
Thanks. J