Nursery suspect asd

My ds3 has been showing signs of high functioning austism at nursery, and theyve asked me to call my health visitor. My son is very academically bright, and can read like a 6/7 year old. I think he does show some indications of asd; he loves order and rules. He struggles with transitions, and he's not too keen on children his own age, but he is getter much better at playing with his peers. He also seems to have a few mild sensory issues. 

He is also very empathetic, loves cuddles, understands sarcasm and word play jokes. He doesn't have tantrums at home and I'm dubious. I am happy to have him assessed, maybe I'm blind to it. However, my sister in law (who is a senco), says that he won't get any extra help anyway, because he doesn't need it. Therefore, is there any benefit in having a diagnosis? I'd love to hear other people's experiences. This is all very new to me. 

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