I am a SEN Learning Support Assistant to a child with autism. I'm fairly new to education and working with children, and particularly to autism, but have made great progress in the few weeks I've been in my job.
Something I'm finding difficult to get my head around, however, is the First/Then book that "my child's" autism support worker (from the council) insists I use. Whilst I realise that a lot of adults do say "He doesn't need that", when in fact, autistic child in question does need something, I really REALLY feel like the first/then book is not working.
There are a few issues:
- He is too forward thinking. He wants to know what is happening first and then...and then...and then...whereas the book only allows for the first activity
- The first activity may change very quickly and, apart from the fact that he struggles with change, I don't even have the chance to make the change of activity in the book before it's started and new, unexpected demands are being made of him.
- He doesn't seem that motivated by rewards. He won't get on with something because he knows something else is coming. I don't see it drives his behaviour.
I've pushed back a few times, trying to come up with alternatives, but keep being told I need to use it. It just seems pointless. And given that I spend the most amount of time with him at school, and she sees him once a week for 5-10 minutes, shouldn't she be listening to me when I tell her it's more of a hinderance than a help?
Has anyone else had experience of using this? How effective was it? Any tips on how I can better integrate it into his day?
Thanks!
Ellen