My autistic son is 8 and has a commode for night time use and we visit the eneurisis clinic. The school decided to have an overnight residential activity stay. When I explained his problems, I was told by the SENCO that having a wet bed for one night was surely not a problem! By setting up a new pattern of behaviour this would have caused us, as a family, more problems and surely this suggestion was a little unprofessional? Are SENCOs not trained in these conditions?