Primary schools in Berkshire/Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Hello everyone

I have 2 boys with ASD (aged 6 & 9) and we have recently removed them from their mainstream primary school because of the school's failure to support them (long story, won't go into it now).  We're home-schooling at the moment until we find a better environment for them.  The LA have refused to assess for an EHC plan and I know we can appeal but does anyone here have a child in a mainstream primary in the above regions who feels reasonably well supported?  I know that nowhere is perfect but I am desperate to hear from people who are happy with the support their children are getting.

Thanks