Hi all,
Hoping to.get some advice, from other parents who have or are dealing with Angry outbursts.
Right I've two boys 8 and almost 4. 8 yr old has aspergers and little man has autism and global development delay serious sleep issues etc etc lol
Its the youngest I need help with his temper is short he has meltdowns for.things like he doesn't want to share, very Controlling play, not winning, nit getting what he wants, races cars, running etc, u name it the general stuff really. I know a lot of triggers are anyother.kids really including his older brother he just can't take nit winning sharing etc etc all has to be his way, although he loves to.play with other children.
Now my problem. Is when u try to.talk, explain, get him to.share, take toys away, walk up road regardless of who's in front or who has won etc he just goes.into.a red raget, he throws toys at wall or me, he thumps, bites, kicks, screams, trashes the house /room it's crazy he's getting worse I have to sit on him/pin him down, put him in garden to.rage, it's like he sees red and onCe gone can't stop,
It's very hard to.deal with really he looks like a 5 + year old but is just coming up 4. Hes super super strong. He's broken multiple gates down, chunks out of wall where he throws stuff.
His room has soft play in and no furniture so.can play and use his energy up when cold and wet and can't use garden etc. But if a meltdown occurs down stairs I.can't even get him up stairs.
Just don't kn if the neXT thing is going to.be some padded room thing to.put him into until his rage has worn off and has calmed down. N either fallen asleep or calm n sorry.
When he does evertally calm I can hug hI'm and rock him then he will sit calm then play again.
He has sleep issues and on melatonin and also.sensory probs.
Sorry.to.ramble thought best to.give u as much info as poss.
Thanks xx