Hi all, hope you are well, DS has been doing pretty well, stayed in college, got one day a week work experiance on a great farm, (they really are brilliant with him) Passed his driving test!!. took a while but he did it, but we have now discovered he has scoliosis, he had been hiding the pain he is in incase we took him to the Dr, had to see the specialist on Monday and he has 2 curves and a twist, so physio for now and then a decision on surgery next year, we are spinning, and dont know what to do.
He is only interested in farming, talk of anything else is a no go, but if he is in this much pain doing one day a week what will he be like doing 5/6? if he has to have surgery then it will be a good few months before he can do the kind of physical work required on a farm, it just feels like he has his own personal gremlin, I know we have to just wait and see but it feels like we should be trying to slip in other ideas for his short/long term future or if this goes belly up he will crash big time.
very worried mum x