How to explain autism to a 5/6 yr old

Hi there,

My son is almost 6 and was diagnosed this summer. I haven't told him yet because I wanted to give myself a breather to process it myself (not that it came as a surprise). I was wondering if anyone has any books or videos or metaphors they have used to explain what autism is so I can try to explain it to him? He's receptive to books/videos/images/stories so I think any medium like this would help. He's coping pretty well atm, but obviously finds some things challenging. I want to pitch it right and ensure that I don't act as though this is a wholly positive thing (the superpower idea) but equally I don't want to make him feel that there is something 'wrong' with him either, just that his brain is different.

Any advice or ideas gratefully received,

Thanks!

Cinnabar_wing 1 hour ago

Have you seen the cartoon 'Amazing Things Happen', it's not long so you could watch it yourself first and have things to talk about ready when he's seen it.

https://amazingthingshappen.tv/?projects=amazing-things-happen

My son was a bit older, so I leaned into the positives of being able to understand why he had difficulty with certain things and that it would help with getting people to understand him better. Having positive role models helps, and he had the book, 'being autistic' by Niamh Garvey.
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Alice_Mod 2 hours ago
HI Lodorch,

I am glad you have received the diagnosis for your son. Whilst we wait for the community to respond I would like to direct you to some resources that may help you:

5 important steps to take after your childs autism diagnosis - has resources on discussing autism with your child

The Parent to Parent Emotional Support Service provides emotional support to parents and carers regarding their autistic children/grown-up children. The service is provided by trained volunteers with personal experience as the parent of an autistic child or adult. Our focus is on emotional support and understanding what it is like for you as a parent. We offer empathy, understanding, and a safe space to talk through your feelings and experiences. To request a call, complete a web enquiry form here: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/help-and-support/parent-to-parent-helpline

Ask ASH (Autism Support Helper) may help you find further pages of interest on the national autistic society website.

Best wishes,

Alice Mod
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