Telling daughter she is PDA Autistic

Hello all 

Recently joined the society my daughter is 6 and in the last year has had a confirmed diagnosis of autism with a PDA profile. School has been a struggle but we managed to get more support for her and now have an EHCP in place when she starts year 2 this September. We haven't told her yet but I have the sense she already has a sense she is different and don't want to keep her in the dark. I am thinking of starting the conversation with her before she starts year two so I can work on making her more self aware. Does anyone have any advice on this? How did you talk to your children about this? When did you tell your children? Any regrets? 

Thanks so much 

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  • Hi West1986, and welcome to the online community.  It's great to hear that you've managed to get support in place for your daughter at school and are thinking about how to discuss her diagnosis with her.

    We do have a specific guidance page on this that you might find helpful: When should I talk to my child about their diagnosis?  There are also some tips from parents of autistic children about how they approached this.

    I hope you find this helpful, and I'm sure some of our community members will also have their own stories to share!  Wishing you and your daughter all the best, and please do feel free to post again and let us know how things go.

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  • Hi West1986, and welcome to the online community.  It's great to hear that you've managed to get support in place for your daughter at school and are thinking about how to discuss her diagnosis with her.

    We do have a specific guidance page on this that you might find helpful: When should I talk to my child about their diagnosis?  There are also some tips from parents of autistic children about how they approached this.

    I hope you find this helpful, and I'm sure some of our community members will also have their own stories to share!  Wishing you and your daughter all the best, and please do feel free to post again and let us know how things go.

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