Im new here I have a 13yr old son with suspected Autism and a 15 yr old daughter with suspected ADHD and severe Anxiety. I am struggling so much and have no support neither go to school. Every day is a war zone my son has such terrible meltdowns I feel like i never get anything right. I love my kids and do everything for them ive gave up work as mentally and physically I couldn't do it anymore. I suppose im looking for advice my kids trigger each other constantly its like balancing act I cant keep both happy and even when I try my son will tell me its wrong the wrong clothes food, drinks. He is extremly germophobic and cant certain smells so we accommodate this but still Im told I favour my daughter even though I do everything for him. Im just at a loss im so tired no one is understands. As no one sees what we deal with daily x
