Suddenly getting physically stuck

My 12 year old son has started getting "stuck" in various places. It started in the corridor to his classroom at school. Then it was the road we needed to cross to get on the school bus. Now he won't walk more than a few steps from the front door. It is almost half term so I have no idea whether he is just very tired and overwhelmed at the moment or he is pushing the boundaries with me deliberately. Because of this, I don't know how to deal with it. Should I let to go until after term and hope that with some downtime he will reset or should I start bringing in some behaviour consequences. 

Unfortunately, he is not verbally able to explain why he feels this way. Has anyone experienced similar and can better explain how he feels for me? Or have any parents and carers had a similar thing going on and how did it resolve itself?

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  • It sounds to me a little like selective mutism, which I have experienced, in origin. It is not something that the person experiencing it can control. If, in the unlikely event that your son is 'winding you up', raising the possibility taking him to the GP and seeking medical help - even organising a home visit - might result in some modification of his behaviour. If there is a genuine problem then seeing your GP and asking to access psychological therapy would be the way to go anyway.

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  • It sounds to me a little like selective mutism, which I have experienced, in origin. It is not something that the person experiencing it can control. If, in the unlikely event that your son is 'winding you up', raising the possibility taking him to the GP and seeking medical help - even organising a home visit - might result in some modification of his behaviour. If there is a genuine problem then seeing your GP and asking to access psychological therapy would be the way to go anyway.

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