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Anxiousrazz

I am at a loss and don't know where to turn, me and my 19 year old autistic son fall out at least every other day and I need some advice on where we turn to or go next as its making us both unhappy, we love each other but a lot of what i do or how I act can trigger things off that turn into a major fallout 

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  • As there is a lot of love there then I think this difficulty could be more an issue of problems with communication rather than anything worse than that. 

    Try this - google : Plum Village deep listening loving speech

    This will give you great advice and strategies on how to overcome the difficult communication issues between you and your son that are causing so much tension. 

    Sometimes by changing how we listen to each other and talk to each other many painful communication difficulties like this can be healed relatively easily. Good luck! 

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  • As there is a lot of love there then I think this difficulty could be more an issue of problems with communication rather than anything worse than that. 

    Try this - google : Plum Village deep listening loving speech

    This will give you great advice and strategies on how to overcome the difficult communication issues between you and your son that are causing so much tension. 

    Sometimes by changing how we listen to each other and talk to each other many painful communication difficulties like this can be healed relatively easily. Good luck! 

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