Ear defenders for a 3 year old

Hi everyone,

My son is 3 years old. He has autism and is non verbal. He has alot of sensory needs and hates his head/hair being touched. Lately, he is getting very upset by loud noises and even some noises that aren’t loud, noises that to him are upsetting. He used to just cover his ears but now he covers his ears and cries and he gets very upset and sad. We have bought ear defenders but he won’t wear them, they do feel quite tight and my other children have tried them and said the same. I have tried stretching them out but he still won’t wear them. Are there ear defenders you can get that aren’t quite so tight? He won’t wear anything in ear and I cant explain to him they are tight but will get better as he doesn’t understand/is able to take instructions or conversation. I hope I haven’t made that too complicated.

Thank you.

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  • Some of the manufacturers of ear defenders which are adjustable to accommodate children aged 3+ will recommend something like this:

    "For more efficient sound isolation, the earmuffs are a little tight before using. If you feel tight for your kids, we recommend putting it on a box or other objects for 1-2 days to stretch the headband and get it looser."

    Maybe an older child could kindly "braak them in" a bit for your 3 year old son.

    When I was a child; my family used to include me in tasks around familiar places and people at home or at a relative's house - where everyone nearby the task would be wearing their ear defenders. 

    We might be in the house while DIY was happening,  Or in the garden when someone was electric / motor mowing the lawn, or someone was using an electric hedge trimmer, we might be working to maintain a motorbike or repair a car.

    I realise your son is only 3 years of age, so safety around such tasks is a consideration.  This sort of thing would happen: one adult would mowing the lawn while the young children would be in the garden up by the house doing some chore with another adult.

    This meant I was accustomed to wearing ear defenders around my usual people / places / tasks - I didn't only associate wearing the ear defenders with strange new people / new places / unaccustomed and sensory intolerable noise.

    This meant that by the time I wanted to wear ear defenders to noisy events / environments like: a fun fair, traction engine steam fair, steam railway gala, Air Show etc. - I was already an "ear defender wearer pro".

    Some of the pairs aimed at aged 3+ are also intended to accommodate a child changing head size as they grow between ages 3 to 16.

    This is a popular brand (depending on the colour they are sometimes available on offer for about £10.  The same brand does an adult range and they are popular too):

    www.amazon.co.uk/.../B0DK6QHYM1

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  • Some of the manufacturers of ear defenders which are adjustable to accommodate children aged 3+ will recommend something like this:

    "For more efficient sound isolation, the earmuffs are a little tight before using. If you feel tight for your kids, we recommend putting it on a box or other objects for 1-2 days to stretch the headband and get it looser."

    Maybe an older child could kindly "braak them in" a bit for your 3 year old son.

    When I was a child; my family used to include me in tasks around familiar places and people at home or at a relative's house - where everyone nearby the task would be wearing their ear defenders. 

    We might be in the house while DIY was happening,  Or in the garden when someone was electric / motor mowing the lawn, or someone was using an electric hedge trimmer, we might be working to maintain a motorbike or repair a car.

    I realise your son is only 3 years of age, so safety around such tasks is a consideration.  This sort of thing would happen: one adult would mowing the lawn while the young children would be in the garden up by the house doing some chore with another adult.

    This meant I was accustomed to wearing ear defenders around my usual people / places / tasks - I didn't only associate wearing the ear defenders with strange new people / new places / unaccustomed and sensory intolerable noise.

    This meant that by the time I wanted to wear ear defenders to noisy events / environments like: a fun fair, traction engine steam fair, steam railway gala, Air Show etc. - I was already an "ear defender wearer pro".

    Some of the pairs aimed at aged 3+ are also intended to accommodate a child changing head size as they grow between ages 3 to 16.

    This is a popular brand (depending on the colour they are sometimes available on offer for about £10.  The same brand does an adult range and they are popular too):

    www.amazon.co.uk/.../B0DK6QHYM1

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