bathing?

hi does any1 have problems with bathing?my son is 3 non verbal asd,bath time is a nightmare hes always hated the bath,he gets so scared,his body tenses up he covers his ears and screams and screams, and screams,he hates the water on his head,cries so much he struggles2breathe,he shakes and looks so petrified tht i cant stand seein him like tht i end up taking him out the bath,i dont know what to do,i feel im doing wrong by taking him out the bath as its like im taking the easier option,but i dont want to put him through it.

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  • When I was little my mum used to put both me and my sister in the bath, and we'd always take in a load of toys. There was also a soft flannelish whale that used to stick to the back of the bath so I wouldn't freak out from leaning against the cold sides, though most of the time I was chasing a wind up fish or frog around with a plastic dinosaur. Bubbles were also big fun :)

    I think it was mostly distraction techniques, while I was busy making myself look like pappa smurf in bubble form she'd attack me with a flannel. But since I had the choice (and the wind up toys were thrown away) I've taken to showers instead, I just feel safer standing up for some reason.

     

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  • When I was little my mum used to put both me and my sister in the bath, and we'd always take in a load of toys. There was also a soft flannelish whale that used to stick to the back of the bath so I wouldn't freak out from leaning against the cold sides, though most of the time I was chasing a wind up fish or frog around with a plastic dinosaur. Bubbles were also big fun :)

    I think it was mostly distraction techniques, while I was busy making myself look like pappa smurf in bubble form she'd attack me with a flannel. But since I had the choice (and the wind up toys were thrown away) I've taken to showers instead, I just feel safer standing up for some reason.

     

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