overwhelmed by autistic sibling

unsure if this is the right place to speak about this but i just want to understand if im justified or not and theres no one to vent about these things to. i have one older sister(22) with severe autism and my mom stays home full time to watch her. she allows her to stay up til 6am unchecked and my sister basically eats and rummages through everything gets into all types of trouble when no ones watching and my mom lets her get away with whatever. its annoying to see her not really put in much effort taking care of her or trying to address any behavioral problems. the hardest one for me though is my sister yells at our animals. we used to have an older dog i always heard her yelling at and sometimes would see her grab and hit my dog. now she does it with the cats and its the most upsetting, infuriating thing ive ever had to deal with. it hurts my heart so much to see anyone hurt my animals it makes me very angry and resentful towards my sister and parents for not stepping in. can anyone relate at all to these experiences or have any advice on how to cope

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